Ta Ngwang Nginyu W. Yembe

Ngingi  dear, 

It is a bit difficult for me to write this eulogy because you deliberately made me to love and admire you only for you to leave so so soon. The interesting thing is that you wanted to meet your Lord long ago but we kept you back with our prayers; carrot juice, green drink, meat pie etc, etc. Who will tell me again; "Auntie, REYNAM sells the best meat pie in Bamenda" the way you always did? We were the only ones trying to keep you back. Finally, you have gone to meet your Lord.

Bye bye, dear Ngingi, you have acted your part well.

Bye bye, Ngingi, I will continue to take care of myself as you always wanted me to by growing cabbages for me. Yes I will make it a point of duty to continue eating them even more now, in your memory.

Bye bye, Ngingi, you always had me in your mind and now that you are in heaven, I know you will pray for me and all the people you have left behind.

Bye bye, Ngingi, I really don't know what we shall do without that your very caring and loving attitude. The endearing manner in which you called my name shall forever be missed; your way of appreciating little deeds also!

Bye bye, Ngingi, you are the only one who knows what you will do to help your dear mother that you have left behind. The love between the two of you could only be understood by both of you.

I am rest assured that, now that you are in heaven, you will be better placed to pray for our Mummy to have real peace of mind.

Bye bye, Ngingi, we love you. Rest in Perfect Peace.
Aunty Patience

Goodnight Nginyu,

Or  Nginging, as we fondly called you. You've gone away with your wry smile and dry humor. The computer expert who would never fail to tease me about my ineptitude in the domain whenever I asked you for help. You would wonder aloud at this computer illiterate doctor. I still picture you with your camera slung across your shoulder, capturing precious moments of your loved ones in pictures. But you were no stranger to sorrow yourself. I remember when you guys lost the baby, and you sadly said you've lost so much that people probably thought it was normal, or that you were so used to it that you don't hurt anymore. In that difficult hour, we called on God in prayer together. One good thing that came out of all your sorrow was the fact that it made you very compassionate towards others, and always availed yourself to them in their time of need or sorrow. We will always remember you.

ADIEU NGINGING.

From Masoh Vincents,

On behalf of your Ojongtambia 

My son, my Nginging, you gone!! Like a nightmare! A horrible nightmare! We conversed on the phone as you were getting into the car to go to Mbingo that fateful 1st December 2016. Brief conversation, memorable conversation. I didn't know that was the last time I would hear your voice. Less than an hour after, someone called: " Mummy we lost him"! Chai. Two days before, on 29th November I called and sang happy birthday to you on your 51st birthday - the last " Happy birthday to you"! 

You forgot you had promised to bury me! You did promise! But God has the best plans for us and He knows best. We acknowledge His supreme will and accept it, however heartrending! God knows it is best for you to go to Him now. Praise be His Holy Name. You carried your cross and followed Jesus. "Jesus remember (Nginging) when you come into your Kingdom".  Go with a clean heart, my son, my Nginging. I'll love you forever. 

Faustina (your Ma'yese)

 

Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I've been set free,
I am following the path,
God laid for me.

When I heard my savior calling,
I could not wait another day,
I took his hand and walked with him,
I turned my back and left it all.

Tasks left undone, must stay that way ,
Dreams unfulfilled - will go with me,
I take with me memories,
Sorrow, agony, pain , laughter, joy.

Yes, I will miss you dear ones,
I will miss you mother,
If my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joy.

Perhaps my time was too brief,
Don't lengthen it with undue grief ,
My time here is over.

God wanted me now
.........He set me free .......

Omerine YEMBE Aseh MD sister

 

 

 

Hallelujah HALLELUJAH, Heaven gained another angel when you rested.

Smile I say SMILE my big brother Ngingi,
who would have thought those were your last words
just 2 hours before you developed your angel wings.

Fly proud man, FLY my big brother Ngingi,
for you were destined to FLY AWAY to greatness
that's whay you developped your angel wings.

Mummy, I say MUMMY your son Ngingi flew,
for he was destined to fly on that day
shhhhhh cry not because of Ngingi's angel wings.

Little Omerine, Nginyu Jr, Rinyu, behold,
no one but The Lord has great plans for you
it is well even with daddy Ngingi's angel wings.

Rejoice I say, REJOICE with my dear brother Ngingi
though painfully premature, the victory is yours
for you smiled when you grew your angel wings.

In pain and LOST for you leave a HUGE VOID
we will miss you forever until God sends for us
then we will be together forever when
we also grow our own angel wings.

Yours,
Painfully and still in shock Your Sister,
Enaka Yembe 
You fondly caled simply "Ma"